Heading towards a year of Divorce being final. I can breathe. Time does heal as long as you do the work.
- Acknowledge own faults, forgive yourself.
- Celebrate your accomplishments no matter how small they seem. Every baby step counts.
- Don't dwell on negative thoughts. Listen to positive music, quotes and find uplifting
motivational messages YouTube, Tedtalks, Netflix.
- Unplug social media, news etc. for at least a couple days a week.
- Have NO FEAR. HAVE FAITH. It may take awhile to feel this in your heart and soul, have patience with yourself. It is freeing and great to have peace within. He has not failed me yet. I hand everything to him. He has shown me how the worst events in my life turned into life lessons. Something positive does come out of trials and tribulations. You may find out truths about people around you. Strangers can be angels on earth. Your stronger than you think. Too many lessons personally to write.
- Ignore the negative people. Some want to waste their time and energy to make others lives hard, how sad and pathetic is that? Pray for them. They are unhappy for reasons we don't know. Live your life and ignore them. Don't feed into their dark ways. Stay on your path. You will learn to avoid and step over these personality types, it does get easier over time. They are not allowed to take up time in your mind. LIVE YOUR life.
- Keep your heart pure. We all stumble now and then, get back up. As long as we do the right thing everything will be alright, I promise!
- Be grateful.
- Find a hobby. Connect with others that have the same interests.
- Have Boundaries.
- Look and be in nature. Notice the trees, clouds, sunrise /sunsets.
- Help others. It can be as simple as buying someone's coffee in line behind you. This actually happened to me TWICE. See what I mean that goodness does come back to you in some way or another. Compliment a trait in someone you know. Be somebody's smile today.
-Be aware of your own actions and reactions. We are all make mistakes and have bad days. Don't be hard on yourself. Strive to be a better person but allow for human error too.
Everything is fleeting good and bad.... but LOVE lasts forever.
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